We are Human..we make mistakes...!!!

Don't let this world make you bitter....
Don't let the actions of other people turn you cold on the inside.....
Certain things happen that hurt us, people come that leave us, and most of all there are moments when you're bound to fall.....
Don't let those things make you unkind...it's okay to cry....it's okay to be sad.....
But it's never okay to do other people wrong just because you were done wrong.
We're human....we break....we make mistakes....
But don't let pain and sadness run your lives....
Wake up in the morning and do what you think is right.....
There are moments in your life where you feel like giving up and your can't take it anymore. 
It's okay....breathe....exhale....
I know you're weak....but the things that show your weak side are also the same ones that make you stronger in the long run.....
It's all about taking whatever life throws at you and learning from it....

God Bless...

It will be OK....

There are certain people who aren’t meant to fit into your life.
But no relationship is ever a waste of time. If it doesn’t bring you what you want, it teaches you what you DON’T want. We rarely lose friends, we just gradually figure out who our real ones are. Never force someone to make a space in their life for you, because if they know your worth, they will surely create one for you.
And remember, when you’re up, your ‘friends’ know who you are, when you’re down, you know who your ‘real friends’ are. It just takes a little time to figure it all out.
Life is too short. Look out for yourself. If someone continuously mistreats you, have enough respect for yourself to leave them.
It may hurt for a while, but it’ll be OK. You’ll be OK.
Oftentimes walking away has nothing to do with weakness, and everything to do with strength. We walk away not because we want others to realize our worth, but because we finally realize our own worth.

Pain helps you to grow

Sometimes life closes doors because it’s time to move forward. And that’s a good thing because we often won’t move unless circumstances force us to. When times are tough, remind yourself that no pain comes without a purpose. Move on from what hurt you, but never forget what it taught you. Just because you’re struggling doesn’t mean you’re failing. Every great success requires some type of worthy struggle to get there. Good things take time. Stay patient and stay positive. Everything is going to come together; maybe not immediately, but eventually.

Remember that there are two kinds of pain: pain that hurts and pain that changes you. When you roll with life, instead of resisting it, both kinds help you grow

Pain is like a healing emotional fever.

The truth is that life can be very difficult at times. There can be a lot of pressure to keep it all together, to be smart and beautiful, to be so good and perfect. But sometimes we don't have it together at all. Sometimes we make mistakes. Sometimes we don't feel good or look our best. Sometimes things are not good at all and we feel miserable, lonely or depressed. If you have lost your way and feel down, that feeling belongs to you. If you feel miserable  it's yours, and no one should take it away from you. Maybe things really aren't very good at all right now. Maybe you have good reasons to be depressed, and the last thing you need is someone telling you to be happy.

 But one thing you do need, is at least the respect from others to let you sit with your valid feelings. You don't always need a cheerleader, but just someone to be a friend and acknowledge where you really are, and how you really feel. Real problems can't be fixed with a motivational poster, a cute quote or a pat on the back. While you are in your pain, it does not matter how intrinsically special you are, or how beautiful life is, or how precious each moment is  if you don't accept and respect your suffering, it isn't going anywhere. Submit to your pain, don't suppress your pain. If you can sit with your pain, listen to your pain and respect your pain in time you will move through your pain...

Pain is like a healing emotional fever. Allow your pain to cleanse you and burn away what needs to die. A new and better you will grow from the ashes. The most important parts of your life will be marked by pain. Some of the most amazing people in the world were not perfect they were scarred by suffering, hardships, losses and imperfections. But, when they recovered, they were stronger, wiser, and more loving and compassionate. Your life is going to get better in the proper time, and you will be stronger and more at peace than ever before. Out of our suffering we emerge. Our struggles are really our only hope. Stay strong. God is on your side. and, will bless you always...!!!!

Real transformation requires real honesty.

If you want a great life try being kind. It is surprising what power being kind, mannered, polite and considerate has in transforming your life. If you are rude, cynical, habitually-sarcastic or pessimistic, your life options are going to be very limited. Playful, positive sarcasm is different from negative mean sarcasm, and many people don't know the difference. Be careful with people's feelings. Elevate your thinking and comportment. Many people live in an induced spiritual comma; they are inherently vicious, and are completely unaware of their malady. They exist in a mean-spirited and competitive autopilot mode. Unconscious people are spiritually stunted, effectively encasing their unique brilliance in a psychological tumor. There is a coarse and ugly temperament and tenor observable in the common unconscious person. This piggish coarseness looks like impatience, intolerance, rudeness, vulgarity, selfishness, self-righteousness, ignorance, condescension and mockery. I know what it looks like because it was once in me. Maybe you are a pig and don't even know it. Have you ever considered it? Maybe you don't just have "bad luck"  maybe you are caught-up in a rush of ugliness. The nasty are trampled beneath the feet of other pigs.

By being beautiful and kind you are given favored status and opportunity in life. Love can take you from any depth and place you on the highest mountain. Choosing beauty and love does not mean being uninformed or weak; it means you clearly see the ugliness, but choose love anyway. Beauty is so simple and it is all around you if you look. Beauty is reaching for you if you you will hold out your hand in good faith. A blessed life will not come and force you to receive its blessings; receivership is a handshake requiring your earnest reach. Spirituality is very much about putting yourself in proper order. Strive to become a beautiful person. Live with kindness, integrity and care. Comport yourself with grace under pressure. Don't hurt people! Be an asset in the lives of others. Put people before things and live from your heart. Be intelligent, but know it is better to be kind than smart. Be a peacemaker who values peace and takes peace everywhere you go. Learn to understand your energy and how you create with your energy. Have among your priorities the characteristics of politeness, compassion and patience. Avoid making rash assumptions. Be a believer in true love. Have faith in people. Seek deep communication with others and with yourself. Laugh and make the best of every situation and understand that life is not perfect.

Real transformation requires real honesty. If you want to move forward get real with yourself. Change will never happen if you lack the ability and courage to see yourself for who you really are. Begin to elevate yourself today. Try to make better decisions. Become a beauty seeker. If you can begin to believe in your own beauty, you can then begin to believe in the beauty of others. The transformation of the world takes place in your heart. Once you reach the summit of your own heart you will see beauty is everywhere.

Without balance...a life is no longer worth the effort.....

There are specific point or time when i wish i could roll back the clock and take all the sadness away, but i have a feeling that if i did, the joy would be gone as well. So i take the memories as they come, accepting them all, letting them guide me whenever i can…

In each of us lie good and bad, light and dark, happiness and pain, choice and regret, cruelty and sacrifice. We’re each of us our own an effect of contrasted light and shadow…our own bit of illusion fighting to emerge into something solid, something real. We’ve got to forgive ourselves that. No one can live in the light all the time

The ingredients of both darkness and light are equally present in all of us,...The madness of this planet is largely a result of the human being's difficulty in coming to ethical balance with himself.

what is joy without sorrow? what is success without failure? what is a win without a loss? what is health without illness? you have to experience each if you are to appreciate the other. there is always going to be suffering. it’s how you look at your suffering, how you deal with it, that will define you. That is why balancing in life is necessary, without balance life life is no longer worth the effort.

Move On....!!!!!!

At some point, we’ve all made mistakes, been walked on, used and forgotten. We’ve let people take advantage of us, and we’ve accepted way less than we deserve. But we shouldn’t regret one moment of it, because in those moments we’ve learned a lot from our bad choices.
We’ve learned who we can trust and who we can’t. We’ve learned the meaning of friendship
And even though there are some things we can never recover and people who will never be sorry, we now know better for next time......
. We’ve learned how to tell when people are lying and when they’re sincere. We’ve learned how to be ourselves, and appreciate the truly great people and things in our lives as they arrive.

Letting the cycle flow..

Life is cyclical, not static... Our relationships benefit when we allow them to follow their own natural cycles....
Like the tide ebbs and flows, so do the cycles in relationships.... We have periods of closeness and periods of distance. We have times of coming together and times of separating to work on individual issues....
We have times of love and joy, and times of anger.....
Sometimes, the dimensions of relationships change as we go through changes... Sometimes, life brings us new friends or a new loved one to teach us the next lesson...
That does not mean the old friend disappears forever. It means we have entered a new cycle....
We do not have to control the course of our relationships, whether these be friendships or love relationships. We do not have to satisfy our need to control by imposing a static form on relationships......
Let it flow. Be open to the cycles. Love will not disappear. The bond between friends will not sever.... Things do not remain the same forever, especially when we are growing and changing at such a rapid pace.....
Trust the flow. Take care of yourself, but be willing to let people go. Hanging on to them too tightly will make them disappear....
The old adage about love still holds true: If it's meant to be, it will be. And if you love someone, let them go. If they come back to you, the love is yours....
Today, I accept the cyclical nature of life and relationships. I will strive to go with the flow. I will strive for harmony with my own needs and the needs of the other person......

Just spread your wings......

I have come to accept the feeling of not knowing where I am going.,... And I have trained myself to love it.... Because it is only when we are suspended in mid-air with no landing in sight, that we force our wings to unravel and alas begin our flight..... And as we fly, we still may not know where we are going to..... But the miracle is in the unfolding of the wings...... You may not know where you're going, but you know that so long as you spread your wings, the winds will carry you.......

Feelings.....

Of all the things I wish for you, I would give anything if these wishes could always come true. . .
I want you to be happy…
I want you to fill your heart with feelings of wonder and to be full of courage and hope…
I want you to have the type of friendship that is a treasure - and the kind of love that is beautiful forever…..I wish you contentment… the sweet, quiet, inner kind that comes around and never goes away.
I want you to have hopes and have them all come true…..
I want you to make the most of this moment in time… I want you to have a real understanding of how unique and rare you really are… I want you to remind that sun may disappear for a while but it never forgets to shine.... I want you to have faith…
May you have feelings that are shared from heart to heart, simple pleasures amidst this complex world, and wonderful goals that are within your grasp.... May the words you listen to say the things you need to hear….

And may a cheerful face lovingly look back at you when you happen to glance in your mirror…
I wish you the insight to see your inner and outer beauty….
I wish you sweet dreams. I want you to have times when you feel like singing and dancing and laughing out loud. I want you to be able to make your good times better and hard timer easier to handle….
I want you to have millions of moments when you find the satisfaction in the the things you do so wonderfully... And I wish I could find a way to tell you - in untold ways - how important you are to the world….
Of all the things I'll be wishing for, wherever you are and whatever I may do, there will never be a day in my life when I won't be wishing for the best for you :) :)