Monday 26 May 2014

Move On....!!!!!!

At some point, we’ve all made mistakes, been walked on, used and forgotten. We’ve let people take advantage of us, and we’ve accepted way less than we deserve. But we shouldn’t regret one moment of it, because in those moments we’ve learned a lot from our bad choices.
We’ve learned who we can trust and who we can’t. We’ve learned the meaning of friendship
And even though there are some things we can never recover and people who will never be sorry, we now know better for next time......
. We’ve learned how to tell when people are lying and when they’re sincere. We’ve learned how to be ourselves, and appreciate the truly great people and things in our lives as they arrive.

Saturday 24 May 2014

Letting the cycle flow..


Life is cyclical, not static... Our relationships benefit when we allow them to follow their own natural cycles....
Like the tide ebbs and flows, so do the cycles in relationships.... We have periods of closeness and periods of distance. We have times of coming together and times of separating to work on individual issues....
We have times of love and joy, and times of anger.....
Sometimes, the dimensions of relationships change as we go through changes... Sometimes, life brings us new friends or a new loved one to teach us the next lesson...
That does not mean the old friend disappears forever. It means we have entered a new cycle....
We do not have to control the course of our relationships, whether these be friendships or love relationships. We do not have to satisfy our need to control by imposing a static form on relationships......
Let it flow. Be open to the cycles. Love will not disappear. The bond between friends will not sever.... Things do not remain the same forever, especially when we are growing and changing at such a rapid pace.....
Trust the flow. Take care of yourself, but be willing to let people go. Hanging on to them too tightly will make them disappear....
The old adage about love still holds true: If it's meant to be, it will be. And if you love someone, let them go. If they come back to you, the love is yours....
Today, I accept the cyclical nature of life and relationships. I will strive to go with the flow. I will strive for harmony with my own needs and the needs of the other person......


Just spread your wings......

I have come to accept the feeling of not knowing where I am going.,... And I have trained myself to love it.... Because it is only when we are suspended in mid-air with no landing in sight, that we force our wings to unravel and alas begin our flight..... And as we fly, we still may not know where we are going to..... But the miracle is in the unfolding of the wings...... You may not know where you're going, but you know that so long as you spread your wings, the winds will carry you.......

Feelings.....


Of all the things I wish for you, I would give anything if these wishes could always come true. . .
I want you to be happy…
I want you to fill your heart with feelings of wonder and to be full of courage and hope…
I want you to have the type of friendship that is a treasure - and the kind of love that is beautiful forever…..I wish you contentment… the sweet, quiet, inner kind that comes around and never goes away.
I want you to have hopes and have them all come true…..
I want you to make the most of this moment in time… I want you to have a real understanding of how unique and rare you really are… I want you to remind that sun may disappear for a while but it never forgets to shine.... I want you to have faith…
May you have feelings that are shared from heart to heart, simple pleasures amidst this complex world, and wonderful goals that are within your grasp.... May the words you listen to say the things you need to hear….


And may a cheerful face lovingly look back at you when you happen to glance in your mirror…
I wish you the insight to see your inner and outer beauty….
I wish you sweet dreams. I want you to have times when you feel like singing and dancing and laughing out loud. I want you to be able to make your good times better and hard timer easier to handle….
I want you to have millions of moments when you find the satisfaction in the the things you do so wonderfully... And I wish I could find a way to tell you - in untold ways - how important you are to the world….
Of all the things I'll be wishing for, wherever you are and whatever I may do, there will never be a day in my life when I won't be wishing for the best for you :) :)